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Saturday, 15 June 2019

Why are human babies helpless when they are born?

Here have different different Opinion share by Professionals 

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Franklin Veaux, Professional Writer

Originally Answered: Why are humans so utterly useless for the first portion of their lives? For example, horses can stand and walk within hours, yet an infant human can’t even hold its own head up, let alone crawl.
Human infants are basically born premature.





We have two different, contradictory survival strategies: our huge, highly-developed brains (which give us enormous heads), and our bipedalism (which gives us narrow birth canals).

When huge head meets narrow birth canal, something’s got to give.

Human infants are born underdeveloped because birthing a human baby is already dangerous enough as it is—if they were born more developed, they’d kill the mother during delivery.

More often than they already do, that is.

Welcome to the messy, barely functional, “good enough is good enough” world of evolutionary biology.

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Todd Gardiner, worked at Hieroglyph Photography

Originally Answered: Why are humans so utterly useless for the first portion of their lives? For example, horses can stand and walk within hours, yet an infant human can’t even hold its own head up, let alone crawl.
You actually might compare humans to kangaroos or birds, both of which are utterly helpless when born and in need of concealment and care. A helpless baby is not a unique adaptation for mammals.

It’s pretty hard to call the human baby a bad adaptation, given that the big brain that we have easily overcomes any disadvantage. A net zero, at worst. And, in fact, our intelligence makes us an apex predator in just about every biome, so clearly not a net zero.

Interesting, though, that you ask “why”. Like evolution works toward fulfilling a design or purpose. Because it doesn’t. We can ask how, and explain the processes, but there is no intent behind this result.

The process is that we inherited this from our primate ancestors, who also give birth to helpless young. Intelligent, social creatures can become more intelligent and more social (by developing their brains) if they give birth to their young prematurely. Otherwise, the increased brain size leads to death in childbirth by the mothers. So these adaptations went hand in hand during our evolution, with the maximum of brain size at birth and minimum age for surviving outside the age being refined by the furnace of survival of the fittest.

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Adam Wu
Why are human babies so helpless for so long? Why do we take so long to mature physically and psychologically?
Part of the reason is a trade-off for our big brains and the intelligence it brings us.

Human babies are actually born premature compared to most other mammals. At the moment of birth a human baby is still a fetus by the standards of these other mammals, and that is why human babies are helpless for longer afterwards, relatively speaking.

The reason this happens is because if human babies gestated any longer, their heads would grow too large to safely squeeze through the mother's birth canal. And the birth canals of human women have not evolved to be any larger to accommodate a longer gestation because any greater widening would start to compromise bipedal ambulation and would leave them too vulnerable to predators.

This is also one reason why it is unlikely that humans will evolve to be much more intelligent in the future, even if there were selective pressures favoring even greater intelligence. Human brains have gotten just about as large as is possible as they can get for a primate that needs to be born through a birth canal.

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Praveen Mehta (प्रवीण मेहता)

Originally Answered: Why are humans so utterly useless for the first portion of their lives? For example, horses can stand and walk within hours, yet an infant human can’t even hold its own head up, let alone crawl.
Humans are not useless as infant but they need to be trained to use most important function, thinking- emotions and logical application of thoughts. Basically to develop the brain.

Humans are not born to walk or run only. It’s more than biology it’s psychology too.



You can’t compare the incomparable. Try and think the difference between humans and say, a horse.

Can a horse laugh? Ever thought what all do you need to laugh?
Can a horse make a bridge over a river?
Can a horse make a house?
Humans use first part part of their life getting information and be knowledgeable. (Normally)

The later part is spent for using that knowledge for betterment of own and universal life. (To solve a problem, like electricity for darkness)

A horse can’t ask this question on Quora. A horse does not look after his parents too. That’s logical and emotional function. Got it?

Steve Jones, studied at Imperial College London

Why are humans so utterly useless for the first portion of their lives? For example, horses can stand and walk within hours, yet an infant human can’t even hold its own head up, let alone crawl.
It’s because humans are, like other primates, born into social species that provides group protection. Primates were also originally tree climbers, and that enabled the mother to carry her baby out of the way of most dangerous predators.

In contrast, horses, like antelope, deer and other such animals are born into open grassland and are immediately vulnerable to predators such as lions, leopards, wolves and the like. Whilst the adults of some species, such as buffalo, are large enough to see off most predators, especially when acting in groups (buffalo have been known to kill adult lions), this isn’t the case for horses. In those case, mobility matters almost from birth as, unsporting as it might appear, predators will often target the young.

Primates tend to be dependent on their parents and other members of the social group for some time and go through an extended period of development, including social and other skills. Humans take this to extremes of course, but the tendency is in all primates. In a very real sense, all human children are born premature and human babies are particularly helpless. The reason is simply down to size - a human baby has a simply enormous head in proportion to the rest of his/her body (or even the size of the mother) and this is made more difficult by the relatively narrow hips of humans (as humans evolved as a creature that walked upright and ran). If pregnancy was extended much more so the baby could mature it would imperil the life of the mother. Hence the 9 month term of human pregnancy evolved as the balance point between the maturity of the baby and the mortal threat to the mother during childbirth.

I should add that this extended childhood isn’t confined to primates. Some other mammalian species, such as dolphins feature a relatively long development period.

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Christine Gilbert, Home health care aide

It's a compromise between allowing us to develop enough to survive outside the womb, and putting the mother's life at further risk.

Humans have exceptionally large brains. Compared to our nearest relatives, our brains need twice the space and resources to develop properly. This results in our heads growing faster than the rest of our bodies while in utero.

But human women have proportionally narrow pelvises compared to other primates. So our babies have a much more narrow and twisty birth canal to navigate. There only so much room there, and the skull can only be compressed to a certain point before it damages the brain inside it.

So basically, we stay in utero just long enough for our brains to develop to a functional level. At that point we're still just small enough to pass through the birth canal without, hopefully, dying or killing our mother along the way. Our bodies are left to grow more outside the womb, and can grow very rapidly with proper nutrition.

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Olivia Brown, Civilian Support Staff (2017-present)

Why are animal babies born knowing how to sit up, stand up, run, etc. But human babies can't do hardly anything?
It’s down to evolution and presence of predators. Chimps and orangutans also have very long childhoods (especially orangutans who have 7–8 years before being fully mature and independent).

Animals that have shorter childhoods are generally prey animals. Such as zebras, giraffes, gazelles etc. They live on open land, constantly on the lookout for anything that might eat them. If the babies don’t learn to run quickly, they’ll die. Simple survival of the fittest.

It’s also about cognitive development. We have the most complex brains. If we were to remain in utero until we were fully cooked, as it were, wed probably be in there for 5 years! Now that simply isn’t manageable for the body to carry, so we come out much before that and do most cognitive development in the outside world. We have the luxury of time simply because evolution has made us virtually predator free

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Marguerite Church, former Instructor in Biology Appalachian State University (1984-2008)

Why are are human babies so helpless compared to other animal babies?
The more advanced an animal is, the more responsibility the parent must take to keep it safe and teach it . Humans have babies that are helpless because there is much to teach them. We have some instincts and some automatic actions… the startle reflex, the grasping grip, a fear of falling , fear of loud noises , the nursing reflex As parents we have lots of teaching to do. So babies are born helpless to give us parents time for teaching the little ones .

Other animal babies don't need as much contact with the teachers because they are born with more instincts . If you aren't " smart", you better be blessed from birth with knowing what to do automatically. Most animals live on instinct with learned behavior sprinkled in. When they are born some animals already have a body covering and can even walk and run and have their eyes openRabbits are naked and blind at birth but hares are covered with hair, can see and can walk earlier, Some birds like chickens . Have feathers and can run around after mum shortly after they hatch. Robins on the other hand are hatched naked, blind and unable to walk.

So we have a long time to be with our parents. Most mammals babies do. We need extra time to learn from Mom and Dad because we need it to survive.
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Karen Tiede, old lady in training who lives in a rural area with 6 dogs.

Answering what I think you are asking:  the species evolved to deliver the largest head that could fit through the birth canal.  We could have gestated longer, to allow babies to be born more developed, but then they would kill their mothers in birth (or die trying to be born).  We "evolved" social systems to allow mothers to care for helpless infants so they could in time grow up.
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Keith H. Burgess, Primitive skills instructor, living off grid over 40 years,

Originally Answered: Why are human babies born so helpless in comparison to other animals?
I guess because human animals are able to carry & protect their young, just as Kangaroos can. A Kangaroo joey is also helpless at birth & remains so for quite some time.

Keith.

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Morva Ory, lives in New Orleans (1942-present)
Originally Answered: Why are human babies born so helpless in comparison to other animals?
Humans are born so relatively undeveloped because of their skull/brain size. If they were allowed to develop to the stage that the infant is somewhat independent, their heads would not fit through the pelvis.

If you will check, you will find that most primates’ offspring are born in dependent states for the same reason. They have long childhoods and require parental care longer than, say, cattle and horses. Prey animals such as these are born able to run at speed within a short time after birth, while primate babies cling to their mothers for months, even years, after birth.

We are victims of our intelligence.
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Michael Cannon, studied Medicine and Healthcare

Everyone has pretty much nailed it with the brain, that's the starting point of why human infants are helpless and need so much time and attention before they stand a chance in the world. I believe, however, that this is because all of the things that have arisen out of our large primate brain.

Quick note: I specified primate brain, and we do have the largest brains of our primate brethren, by a lot. However, in the animal kingdom, there seems to be no correlation between brain size and "intelligence", but only when compared to all the other animals. The key here is that different types of animals have varied neuron density. Primates have the highest neuron density. Show me an animal with a brain bigger than mine and I will show you an animal that will never learn algebra.



Okay, back to the things that come with having a large, powerful brain:


  • Language
  • Complex social relationships and interactions
  • Culture
  • Accumulated knowledge
  • Crafting and use of tools
  • Agriculture and cooking

I'm sure there are more, but you get the idea. So many of the things that make us human, and so successful as a species, are things that are learned from the older human you grow up around. Many of these things are nuanced, complex, and took many people a very long time to perfect. If a human infant was born able to run off into the jungle, build a house, trap/skin/prepare game, and select for consumption only the plants that are nutritious and not poisonous, many of them would, and the deep bonds we share with our friends and family, in which people take turns sacrificing their own time and resources to help another, would not have the chance to develop. A sea turtle is born able to swim. And swim it does. It will likely be someone's lunch, but if it swims far enough from shore, all it has to do is keep swimming and open its mouth at the right time.

While many other creatures have evolved incredibly powerful instincts, such as salmon beings able to return to the stream from which they spawned to repeat the whole process. That's incredible, but it's still just one set of God coordinates. Given enough time and the right teacher, any one of us could learn hundreds of those, and teach them to others. The tradition of acquiring and passing down knowledge and material culture, as well as the ability to be able to convey complex ideas to one another, catapulted us into the #1 predator category, and we are hear to stay because we are the ultimate pack animal. 
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Vibhu Pande
Ideally human babies are supposed to be in womb for 21 months. But since our heads have eveloved to grow much larger while the vaginal opening has evolved to get smalled (due to our erect position), the mother is likely to die if the baby is born after 21 months. 

So the nature simply ejects the baby after 9 months and lets the parent figure out how to take care of that helpless thing for next 1 year.
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Ann Dowker, works at University of Oxford

One reason is that all human babies are born ‘prematurely’ compared with those of most other primates - and even more so than most other animal species. A newborn infant of most primate species is comparable in development to a 9-month-old human infant. This is presumably because humans on the one hand have larger heads and brains in proportion to the body than most other species, and on the other hand have narrower pelvises due to walking upright. If a human infant was born at the same level of development as other primates, they could not be born at all (at least in the days before caesarian sections) because their head would be too large to get through the pelvis. Another reason is that humans have evolved to be able to learn to live in a wide variety of environments, but are not as pre-programmed to live in a particular environment as many other species. So they are ultimately capable of learning to build an igloo, navigate the desert, operate a computer, or whatever else a particular environment demands, but in their early lives, need a lot of care and teaching from their parents.
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Terry Loo, studied at Charles Telfair Institute

I am not an expert on the subject but I heard that it is because of 3 things

1) Migratory species that rely on quickly escaping predators like antellopes or gnus need to be be able to escape at any time and thus their children are ready to run within hours but Humans live in shelters and thus can take all the time they need (avg labour is about 10-12 hours) and thus don't need to have quickly functional babies

2) because of our larger cranial boxes, humans have to be born earlier compared to animals who are the same size as us or else the lady would have a very difficult labour. 

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Yosef MacGruber, pro-life advocate, pro-big families, reject birth control

By God’s intelligent design. Because babies have such amazing potential, God wants for parents to spend lots of quality time with their children so as to help them develop better.

I mean animal babies are hardly helpless at all, walking within hours or minutes of being born. There has to be some good reason for the difference.

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Assaph Mehr, works at DocsCorp

Humans need big brains. 
Humans also walk upright, causing the pelvis to change and the birth canal to narrow.
The foetus stays in the womb for as long as it can, growing it's brain. It's a trade off between brain size and readiness vs. the mother not dying in childbirth.
After birth, the barely half-formed little human baby still needs to spend a lot time growing up, whereas other mammals (that do not require such large skulls or walking upright) can stay longer in the womb and emerge further along their growth path.
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Junie Sensabaugh, works at Creature Comforts (2008-present)

All newborns are helpless, needing their mom. animals mature faster than people. When it takes 21 years to become adult you see a much faster development in all animals. Some suggest pets age 1 yr for a very 7 yrs of human development. A 3 yr old dog is really 21 in human yrs. The ‘WHY’ is as unknown now as ever. Wild animals must mature quickly or die. Humans have the luxury of time. Humans also can live to over 100. Animals live much shorter life spans.

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Ginger M. Volz, Mother of many, Legal Scholar and Wise Sage

Why are human babies completely dependant on their parents and animal babies are not completely dependant on their parents?

Humans are animals, so your question is a bit off. Different animals produce babies at different levels of maturity, depending on the complexity of the animal. The more complex the animal, the longer the dependency on the parent.

So reptiles crack out of their shells and are basically ready to go. Amphibians and fish just start swimming and develop with pretty simple skill sets, when compared to a human.

Mammals tend to need the most parental tending. Birds need tending initially but usually within a few weeks they are also off on their own.
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Denise Lemmel, Musician

Originally Answered: Why are human babies born so helpless in comparison to other animals?
Actually we are not! Although lion Cubs can walk right away, but they are born blind and toothless. That's sure good as far as Mom's concerned! Actually Cheetahs & Leopards are born that way also. We are born helpless, but although we can't walk, we can see. Besides lions and elephants, calves & cubs will die without their mothers. But, we are dependent on our mothers, although we can survive with other humans. Primates are like us, they need to be taught everything by their mothers. So, I suppose it depends on what you call helpless. If we didn't have larger brains, and we're left out in the wild, that would definitely be a different scenario.

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David Skarbrevik, Master of Information Data Science, University of California, Berkeley (2017)

As David Kincade mentioned, there is a positive correlation between the "length of helplessness" of a being and the adaptability of that being. For example, imagine you need to be self sufficient as soon as you pop out of the womb. You'd need the neural circuits for how to eat your food (and so many other things) already in place right? But if your parents stayed around, you might get visual cues about eating that could save your life. Perhaps the food that your species was "wired" to eat has vanished and having your parents there to feed you for a few days would teach you how to adapt to these changing times.

As for the specific thought about human brain vs sexual maturity, I would recommend backing up a step or two. Who says that brains are fully developed at age 25? What do you think it means to be fully developed? I'm 26 and I can tell you with confidence that my brain is still developing everyday in a number of ways. Every time I visit a new location or revisit an old location, synaptic pathways in my brain are formed/strengthened while others degrade... I would call this development.

In other words, it's not fair to compare "brain development" and "sexual development" because you're certainly not using the word "develop" the same way in both instances.
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Matthew Gagliano, Engineering Manager

As humans, we have the longest adolescent period of any species on earth. Most of that is the social grooming required to survive, in a tribal environment, before reaching reproductive age.

Here’s just a small list of things we have to understand.

  • We need to learn how to walk on two legs.
  • Learn how to eat.
  • When to go to sleep.
  • When not to make noise.
  • Who is nice, who is not nice.
  • What nice is.
  • How to use tools.
  • How to fend for ourselves.
  • How to “try” to control our emotions.
  • How to speak a language

and thousands and thousands of other small skills that add up to being a full-fledged human adult.

A fish has to learn how to swim, eat, not die, and have sex.

Now, some of the reasoning why humans are so dominant in our control of the resources of this planet is our ability to work together, use and make tools and understand language enough that we can read past down knowledge that was learned by dead humans 4000 years ago.

Fruit flies can’t do that.

Heck, even chimpanzees can’t do that.

They have to relearn how to use sticks to capture ants for a snack all the time.

You could imagine, that the time it takes to adjust to the world as a human would then take longer than something that could operate on an almost automatic level.
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Kayla R Mayer, BFA in Illustration, Illustrator for Animation

For example, horses can stand and walk within hours, yet an infant human can’t even hold its own head up, let alone crawl.
If you've ever heard a new born cry, you've just heard it's defense mechanism. You know humans are social creatures, you've heard that a ton. What that means is we survive through cooperation. We're not built to stand or ground totally alone, like a horse getting run down by a wolf pack. We've got a different method. If a predator kills a human, the rest of the humans will hunt the predator, and it's kind, forever.

So babies are loud. They may be an easy meal alone. But what baby gets left alone? Babies can afford to be useless while everyone else takes care of their needs. Other animals can't go the length we can with care and attention. We'll bend the world to a baby's cry.
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Patrick Edwin Moran

Due to the size of the brain, any further growth would probably make for very difficult births. So that’s one reason that the brain can’t mature further in the uterus. Human brains come with much less preprogramming then, e.g., baby chicks that can feed themselves as soon as they can get to their feet.

What isn’t preprogrammed must be learned. Humans need to do things like learning to walk that some other animals can do right away after birth. If their brain has both the plasticity to learn most things, and also the already-formed manual dexterity, ability to walk, etc. of the great apes, then I suppose their heads would have been even larger, and birth would have been very hard on mothers or even deadly.

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Naomi Green

Originally Answered: Why are humans so utterly useless for the first portion of their lives? For example, horses can stand and walk within hours, yet an infant human can’t even hold its own head up, let alone crawl.
It has to do with our brains.

Firstly, we are born premature compared to most mammals, because if we were to wait to reach the same stage of development that horses wait for before we are born, we'd probably kill our mothers with our massive heads.

Secondly, we have extended childhoods, which is the evolutionary drawback for being so smart. We need our longer childhoods for our brains to be able to develop to the level they do. This is both our evolutionary strength and our evolutionary weakness. Other animals might grow up fast and have sharp claws and sharp teeth to survive. They grow up fast so they are less vulnerable to predators.

We grow up slowly so our brains can develop. It makes us more vulnerable to predators and rivals during our childhood, which is one of the reasons evolution rarely takes this route, but as a result, we're the smartest animal on this planet. We negate the risks of our long childhoods by being social animals or pack animals.
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Joel Reid

Humans are born prematurely. if we were carried to full term, that being the point where we could do all those things other animals can do, then we would be born about 6–8 months later. This means a gestation of over 15 months (over a year).

The reason we are born prematurely has to do with our head size, which can not fit out of the birth canal if gestation was 15 months due to human women standing on two legs instead of four. We have to be born early so that our head can fit out without damage to baby or mother. This results in a baby that is capable of basic life functions, but incapable of complex motor skills.
Luckily our evolution has allowed our mothers and babies to have adapted to having birth early and thus the mother will produce milk appropriately and the baby’s organs will be functional enough to digest and breathe.

here is a baby only a few weeks old:


We can see this in Elephants who have a very well developed brain comparable to ourselves, however have a gestation of 22 months (almost 2 years). This gestation is not due solely to size, it is also due to brain and motor development. As you can se ein teh following picture, this baby elephant looks much more developed than a human baby.


Here is a baby 1 year old (effectively if born at an elephants gestation period:


Notice how he is standing?
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David Kincade

As usual these are simply my ideas on the topic and not from textbooks, FWIW so to speak.  Anyway, the upside to long development periods is greater information processing, i.e. learning period. The downside to "not being helpless for so long" like most animals is that they are more hardwired so to speak... instinctual.  We have very long periods of taking environmental information in and making adjustments and changes... much more adaptable to environments (through intelligence).

The difference between sexual and brain maturity is interesting, I can only guess that it was important advantage to be able to have offspring relatively young so as not to die out, yet still be flexible as to environment for much longer?  To be honest I think this is all yet another common sense argument for passing down of acquired information, why do flexible, information gathering, development periods increase as evolution moves on?  If information doesn't get passed down, then what's the point... we would all just reproduce and die. Here is in interesting take on how life works, which fits into your question because the long developmental periods are periods of information collection and change:

David Kincade's answer to What's wrong with the theory of evolution by natural selection? 

Interestingly in ANY case, ignoring the link, information DOES get passed down through society, meaning that one can affect countless offspring with what one does even after he/she has her own... other peoples offspring, through society, culture, media, etc.

Probably more than you bargained for, hope you find interesting.

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Saima Usmani, I like agreeing with people I disagree with

Are we really that helpless? Even before the invention of firearms, we had swords. We had brains complex enough to build fortified structures and set up systems to provide us with food. 

We may not have thick skin, the ability to hold our breath under water, run really fast, ridiculous strength, or flight, but only because we were never forced to develop those things. We were able to think around it; wear furs of other animals, build flotation devices, ride horses, use pulleys and wheels to transport large items. 

Brain=evolutionary advantage. 

I think that means that the best superpower to choose would be super-intelligence over anything else. I guess. But that is another answer for another question.
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Lookman Ali

Well in my point of view the human babies are born with no wisdom.For example lets consider a baby of dog and goat if we put grass in front of the kitty and put meat at front of puppy absolutely they will not eat these foods.Being animals they knows everything of survival,food,shelter etc.But human babies are unaware of eating they will eat anything .The point is that humans have the special ability to gain knowledge by their selves not by natural process.Humans can differentiate between good and bad by the ability of their knowledge.Now a days there is no difference between humans and animals.There are many humans which hate another humans just because of their religion,creed,color,wealth and many other aspects knowing that it is wrong.If you noticed that it is wrong then why you do such things think about it.Please be like humans not animals.
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JJ Grey, Land owner, US Citizen, Gun owner, Lived poor urban + rural

Originally Answered: Why are humans so utterly useless for the first portion of their lives? For example, horses can stand and walk within hours, yet an infant human can’t even hold its own head up, let alone crawl.
Actually my child could hold up their head, and push up their upper torso, and crawl short distances the same day they were born. But admitedly this is FAR less than more vulnerable prey animals can do within hours, or reptiles can do within minutes of hatching. But somehow this thing call maternal care seems to make up for a lot of the difference, and gives other advantages that some introspection may be capable of providing you.
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Ankur Mangla, showing off the leftover knowledge

SHORT ANSWER: Human babies crania (the skull, especially the part enclosing the brain) are actually so small as to be underdeveloped for our species, much more undeveloped then those of other newborn primates.

Human babies compensate by quadrupling brain size after birth. In other words, the brains of newborns grew from about 33 percent of the average adult brain size to 55 percent of it in three months. In contrast, most other primates offspring emerge with pretty developed brain.

The pliable head which allowed the child to safely pass through the birth canal is also responsible for enabling normal human development during the first 18 months of a child’s life. During this period the brain grows rapidly and the skull has to be flexible enough to adapt to its growth.

Human babies are helpless because infants are born with their neural network incomplete. But if human was born with cranium large enough to make it as developed as the brand new deer or ape, its head would be too large to be fit through birth canal.


Compare the elephant and human

Elephant- Infant size= 1/45 of mother and 670 days gestation

Human- Infant size= 1/22 of mother and 266 days gestation

For human baby to emerge as developed as newborn elephant, child would need to be born with cranium the size of one year old, a physical impossibility.
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Marky Tee

I’m not sure they’re quite as helpless but they do mature very quickly. Naturally you won’t be surprised to find that proportionally apes and monkeys also spend more time developing at the “baby” stage (we are one of them after all). This is almost certainly because of brain function and the size of our skulls. In order to make it biologically possible for females to give birth and (hopefully in most cases survive) our brains need to continue to develop after birth. Our skulls take up to a year or more to fuse, and our brains spends at least a decade absorbing life skills to survive to an age when we can start to breed (typically 12–13: puberty). We are (generally) a nurturing species so a baby can usually rely on adults to take care of its basic needs while it continues to develop, which requires sleep and doesn’t involve even walking, let alone running for more than a year after birth (as opposed to the same day for a deer for example).
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Gloria Cole, former Archaeologist, Museum Curator.Taught Anthropology (1969-2004)

Long infant dependency allows for mother-infant and family-infant bonding. It allows time for the brain to grow out side of the uterus preventing many child- mother deaths at birthing. it allows the child to learn bathroom behavior. It allows for socialization of the infant. It allows the child to learn language and relate to other aspects of its environment.

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Anne K. Halsall, mother

Because humans have extremely large brains compared to other species. Human babies gestate for as long as they possibly can before their heads get too large to pass through the birth canal. The rest of their development has to take place outside of the womb.
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Greg Gustafson

Originally Answered: Why are human babies born so helpless in comparison to other animals?
All animals born helpless. One factor that been eluding the others is ARMS. Humans and primates can hold their babies and nurture them for years, while herd animals have to gain mobility fast to keep up with their mothers during travel and migration. Birds have an extended development period because they are in the arms of a protected environment, the nest.
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Omkar Ghanekar, works at Amazon Web Services

Man has been around for millions of years. But why has most of the development and advancements in science been done in last 200 years?

The answer is 'compounding'.

Invest $1 today at 100% interest( if you know a real bank that does this, you let me know, ok?), you have $2 the next year, $4 the year after, $8, $16 in the next years, so on and so forth. As you would have seen, in getting to that $16 value, most value amplification happened in last 2 years; rest of the time, it was building the foundation for the crazy amplification. Similar is the case with all science and technology advancements. All these discoveries are standing on the shoulders of giants. Einstein knew it and so did all other scientists. Human race has come a long way since Home erectus and learnt a lot from its mistakes and worked on fixing them. Einstein could worry about relativity because our ancestors took care of the (caloroes/time spent eating) problem by discovering cooked 

Similar is the case with human babies. Human babies go through a lot of transformation in the first 24 months of their lives. With every experience, neurons in their brain make new connections, repeated experiences strengthen those connections. A 12 month old baby cannot recognise its mirror image as a reflection and assumes its a second baby whereas a 18 month old does. I wonder if even an adult horse can recognise a mirror image as its reflection. Humans have their brain as their strongest weapon and its a darn complex weapon to sharpen. Human babies consume a lot of information from their surrounding in the initial months and try to make sense of it all, something upon which their lives will depend in future. Look at this as compounding process. Maximum amplification will happen in later years but that kind of amplification needs that the trivial and primordial problems be solved first and the stage be set for creating that maximum impact.

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Kanwalpal Singh Flora, Electrical Engineer

Yes, this question has been on my mind for long time, especially when i see wild life documentaries and how deer babies have to start learning how to run within couple of weeks to escape the predators.

On the other hand Humans take years and even couple of decades of guidance and care to reach self sustaining level.

Ofcourse, after that , we(humans) feel we own the world and are all powerful :)

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Ronald J Brown, Retired English teacher, high tech guru and tax specialist

Human babies are born somewhat before they should be because their heads are so big that they’d never fit through the birth canal. It takes a long time for that big brain to process all it needs to until the new creature can look after itself.
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Eric Johnson

Originally Answered: Why are human babies born so helpless in comparison to other animals?
Humans have to be born before Thier body is developed because the head has to pass the birth canal . The BRAIN us already huge in comparison to other animals so it's got to get out early. That's why baby's head us squashy so it can get out then the body gas to catch up.
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Jerry Crespi, CEO Software company, Industrial Psychologist

Originally Answered: Why are human babies so helpless for so long? Why do we take so long to mature physically and psychologically?
The other answers are very good. So I will only point out that humans are not the only animals that do it this way.  Great apes are quite helpless and take long periods to mature. So do elephants and many whales spend a long time under the care of their parents. 

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Jerry Zolan, Active student of life. Always learning.

Humans have evolved to be be born immature. Our heads (and therefore brains) are rather large. If we were to fully mature in the womb, we wouldn’t fit through the birth canal and there would be a high death rate. So we evolved to pop out before our brains have fully grown and our skulls have hardened.

Once we pop out, we are parasitic worthless meat bags until our brains develop. (Some may argue we continue to be parasites indefinitely but that’s a whole different story.)

Anyway, we eventually mature, our brains grow very large and make us one of the smartest species in the world.

Unfortunately it means we are entirely helpless for the first little bit of our life unlike almost every other animal in existence.
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Mark Gouthro, M.S. Biology & Physiology, University of Nebraska-Lincoln (1994)

Originally Answered: Why are human babies born so helpless in comparison to other animals?
Ever seen a baby panda? They look pretty helpless. P.S. this question has been asked too many times.

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Mike Dammann, Founder of Date By Type (datebytype.com) - Blood Type Dating

Originally Answered: Why are humans so utterly useless for the first portion of their lives? For example, horses can stand and walk within hours, yet an infant human can’t even hold its own head up, let alone crawl.
It took longer for humans to develop evolutionary speaking. So it takes longer for human infants to develop into full functioning humans.

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Adella Doherty, former Nurse at Hospitals

The extra time that humans need to acquire abilities like lifting their heads without help, taking their first tentative steps at around 1 year old, etc., is part of the evolutionary trade-off for having highly developed brains capable of managing complex reasoning, communication and social interaction, alongside the physical requirements and capabilities of our adult bodies.

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Prasanna Simha M

Originally Answered: Why are babies helpless?
Because they are born relatively early deu to birth constraints and have to complete their development after being born.However do not underestimate the survival instincts of nature. Just check the grip of a new born baby.
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Kshitiz Awadhwal, Doctor, DNB, General Physician

Originally Answered: Why are humans so utterly useless for the first portion of their lives? For example, horses can stand and walk within hours, yet an infant human can’t even hold its own head up, let alone crawl.
They are useful.

Useful to their parents or caretakers. Caretakers realize their ful potential as a human being when such huge responsibility of nurturing a child is bestowed on them.

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Khaled Mohid, Researcher

Somewhere in a long evoloutionary process, a strange and unique development happened.

Standing Upright: After hundreds years of struggle, a species succeeded to stand and walk on two foots and remaining two, started working differently as holding things and making tools etc. After this strange phenomenon, they made homes, started living together and developed language.
Due to all these steps their brains became bigger, sharper and complexed. They won the evolution race but a hazard happened, due to standing straight, walking and running, they got disturbances in female pelvis and baby head ratio. Pelvis was narrower as compared to full growth head of baby in the mother womb, so it became harder to give birth a baby with full developed head.
Birth With Under Developed Head

To counter this, humans started to give birth to babies with under developed head and If it didn't happened, their death rate during childbirth could be dangerously high.
Now After the birth, brain uses more than 40% of total gained energy to grow to its potential size in early one or two years and this extra focus on brain growth resulted at slow learning in psychomotors (action learniing) as eating, speaking, standing and walking etc ..!

Sunday, 26 May 2019

MEDITATION TECHNIQUES FOR PREGNANT WOMEN TO HAVE A SMOOTH PREGNANCY

There is nothing more exciting than growing that little one within you and nurturing the baby with all you have.

Pregnancy doesn’t need to be as stressful and unpredictable as it is become these days. You can have a calm, peaceful and healthy pregnancy by following simple mindfulness techniques.

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Most moms are working or engaged in an activity that requires them to spend a very good part of time juggling their time balancing everything from home, food, hospital and other works. This becomes overwhelming to be doing all this together with the pregnancy hormones doing a roller-coaster within you.

This is exactly why you need to stop and take a small time for yourself and start doing mindfulness practices that will send some happy hormones to your brain and make you feel normal, if not elated. So, let me tell you  5 meditation techniques for pregnant women.

1.Deep Belly Meditation Technique For Pregnant Women
Place your hands on your belly as if you are cradling your baby. Close your eyes and feel the baby within you. What is it that you feel?

Warmth? Movement? well depending on the month it differs but you do feel the difference for sure.

Breath slowly, move your hands through your tummy to and fro and breathe – in and out.

Do not try to push away any thoughts, just concentrate on your breathe and let the thoughts wander and go away by themselves.

Do this every day for at least 10 to 20 minutes. Check on on benefits of practicing mindfulness during during pregnancy.

2. Practice Self Affirmations


We all know how powerful words are and the effect they have on our minds. As discussed earlier the baby int he womb has all your attention and will heed to everything you say. Hence this is the time you must make use of completely.

Start by saying words such as

I feel joy and contentment now and will continue to do so.
I can tab my inner energy towards wellness and happiness anytime I wish.
I am positive – I world around me is filled with positive people and positive vibes
I am naturally strong – I can always check any problems from affecting me
I am responsible – I spread happiness to people around me
I instill security in emotions within myself and to others around me
Do this after or when you start or are about to finish your meditation. This will give more power to your meditation. These affirmations will get rid of your hormonal imbalance during pregnancy which may make your mood to swing. Also self affirmations give best results during delivery.

5 Meditation Techniques For Pregnant Women To Have A Smooth Pregnancy
5 Meditation Techniques For Pregnant Women To Have A Smooth Pregnancy
3. Practice Visualization
Visualization has power to calm your mind, give strength to your body and even make dreams come true. If you have the power and enough concentration to visualize you sure can improve your total life and give comfort to your kid in your womb.

You will positively alter the environment and circumstances in which your baby is in-within you. This is very true when it comes to you visualizing serenity, happiness, comforting your baby, passing love to your baby and so on.

Although this looks like a very simple exercise, creative visualization is a meditation technique for pregnant women is something that would give you peace during the complete pregnancy period and help you have an easy labor. In fact you start getting better sleep which is not easy for many pregnant women.

5 Meditation Techniques For Pregnant Women To Have A Smooth Pregnancy
5 Meditation Techniques For Pregnant Women To Have A Smooth Pregnancy
4. Learn Mindful Walking – An Important Meditation Technique For Pregnant Women
Meditation and mindfulness practice are very useful to have a relaxed, stress-less and peaceful pregnancy. Here are 5 ways how you can preactice mindfulness during pregnancy and begin nurturing your baby within your womb towards a happy life
5 Meditation Techniques For Pregnant Women To Have A Smooth Pregnancy – mindful walking
I have already spoken about mindful walking and the effects it has on your body, mind and soul. n fact no alone during pregnancy ,practicing mindful walking is helpful for every person n any age group and gender.

Make sure to allocate 20 to 30 minutes for walking, walk in open such as a park or a walking track and walk slowly. Observe the surrounding while you walk and make sure to walk with a pace that is comfortable to you. Just notice the things around you, take in the sounds, smell and look into how your body behaves while walking. Which are the muscles involved while you walk, do you feel pain in any place, how is your breathing while you walk and so on. You can talk your baby inside you – you can tell the little one what you see around you, how you feel and so on. This will help develop your child’s observing ability.

5. Relax Completely Through Third Eye Meditation
It is very important to totally relax your body and mind. You can follow guided meditations for the same. They give you peace of mind and relax you completely. It produces serotonin, a hormone that affects the regulation of wake-sleep patterns and your energy levels. Whether you’re in labor, or just stressed, be sure to relax the muscles on your forehead between your eyebrows for maximum relaxation.This also gives a sense of secure feeling which is important for the baby. Remember the baby get all the signals from you and how you feel during your pregnancy plays an important role in how the child would be all through his/her life. So get mindful and begin giving the right signals to your child inside you.

Friday, 23 November 2018

If your teething baby seems uncomfortable, consider these simple tips

Teething is something all babies will go through. It is a growth process of a baby like crawling, walking and talking. It’s an important milestone in your baby’s upbringing making you overwhelmed. Teething indicates that your baby is on the right path of development and growth.

If your teething baby seems uncomfortable, consider these simple tips


Teething is no fun for your baby. It can erupt with no problems at all but sometimes teething can take long and painful process in your baby. You can notice teething in your baby by the following symptoms:
·       Visibility of a tooth on your baby’s gum
·       Baby’s grabbing ears
·       Swollen or red gums
·       Turning away from food
·       Urge to bite, chew or suck everything that comes in your baby’s hands
·       Irritability

 Here are some caring things you can do to care for your child’s mouth during the teething spell to give comfort to him:
·       Give your baby his own toothbrush, fit for smaller mouths, when he urges to put anything and everything in his mouth. It will allow baby to put the exact thing (toothbrush) in his tender mouth.
·       While opting for teethers for your baby consider natural teethers like wood toys. They perfectly find in your baby’s hand and mouth.

·       Use a wet cloth place it in the freezer for 30 minutes and give it to your baby. It will soothe your baby’s gums by its texture and coldness absorbed in it.

·       Try giving frozen bananas, melons, or apples to allow your baby to gum with their tender touch and taste. It’s the best tool in comforting the teething of your baby.

·       You can give teething tablets to your baby after consulting with the doctor. These tablets are supposed to relive irritability and teething discomfort of your baby.


·       Massage your baby’s gum by the counter pressure of your fingers. It will help in easing the teething pain of your baby by soothing his gums.


·       Try to give your baby foods like carrot or celery easily accessible in your home. These foods will help soothing your baby’s gum by putting pressure on. Make sure your baby doesn’t eat them.

Thursday, 22 November 2018

Understanding your newborn baby world , Movements, needs, and reveal his likes and dislikes

Your baby is born ready to communicate with you. His movements may look random, but every action your baby makes has meaning. He'll tell you what he needs, and reveal his likes and dislikes through his behaviors. 

Understanding your newborn baby world , Movements, needs, and reveal his likes and dislikes

While understanding your newborn may seem overwhelming at first, you'll start to read your baby's signals in no time at all. Watch how he reacts to being undressed, talked to, held and fed. You'll soon start to understand the experiences he enjoys, and those he doesn't. 

Your baby may turn away, squirm or fuss to show you that he doesn't like something. On the other hand, if something appeals to him, he may show this by looking at it intently, and being still and quiet. 

Don't forget, your baby is learning about you too! He's watching your movements and facial expressions, and picking up on the tone of voice you use. It's a two-way learning process.

What are the benefits of understanding my newborn?

Learning to read your newborn's cues can help you both. Here’s how: 

It helps him relax. If you respond to your baby's signals quickly, he'll feel reassured, soothed and cared for.
It helps you to learn what responses he prefers. By watching your baby you'll get to know his individual pace, and whether he prefers slow, gentle handling or a brisker approach.
It helps your baby build trust in the people looking after him, and he'll find the predictability of his daily routine reassuring and comforting.
It teaches him about emotions. By observing your baby, you'll learn how he shows his emotions. Encourage him by matching your own facial expressions to your feelings, so he can learn to do the same.
It helps you feel more confident as a parent!
How can I tell what mood my newborn's in?
You can learn a lot about your baby's mood by how he responds to sights, sounds and touch. You'll probably notice that his behaviour falls into one of six different states at any given time: 

Deep sleep. Your baby's eyes will be closed and still. His breathing will be regular and he may make the occasional startle.
Light sleep. This is also known as rapid eye movement (REM) sleep. Your baby's eyes will be closed, but they may open briefly. He may move, startle and make the occasional sucking motion.
Drowsy. This is your baby's semi-dozing state. He's not fully asleep, but he's nearly there. His eyes open now and then, and his movements are smooth.
Alert. Your baby's eyes will be open. His attention will be focused and he'll be still.
Active and alert. Your baby will be bright-eyed. He'll move around and may make brief, fussy cries and startles.
Crying. Your baby will cry hard in this state. He may squirm around and be difficult to soothe.

You may notice that your baby can't do some things while in a certain state. For example, he may not feed well if he's in a light sleep. Or he may not want to play when he's crying. 

You'll soon recognise these patterns and be able to respond to your baby's behaviours. You may learn that you need to rouse your baby a little before a feed. Or that he needs to be in an alert state before he starts playing happily. As you begin to understand your baby's wants and needs, you'll quickly become an expert in understanding and reacting to his mood.
How do I know if my newborn wants something?

Does he want to be fed? 


Your baby is likely to make a particular sound or cry when he's hungry. If so, you'll soon learn to identify it. He may also suck on his hands, fingers or fists. 

You may notice your baby turning his head strongly to one side while opening his mouth. This is called rooting. 

Does he need to sleep? 


Your newborn will probably fuss or cry when he needs to sleep. He may stare with glazed eyes before drifting off, or he may suddenly look quite pale. Other signs to look out for include a lack of interest in playing and not responding to you or what's happening around him. 

Is he bored or lonely? 


While your newborn will be interested in playing with you from birth, he doesn't need constant entertainment. He'll tell you when he's ready to play by becoming calm and alert, and looking at you with wide eyes and raised eyebrows. 

If you notice him trying to find things to look at, this may be a sign that he's feeling bored or lonely. He may open his mouth into an "oo" shape or make noises as if to call you. 

In the first few weeks, the best toy for your baby is your face and voice. Try holding him about a foot away and sticking out your tongue. He may copy you! Give him plenty of time to respond before you change your expression. It may take him a while to work out what to do. 

Does he have wind? 


If your baby has wind, he may cry, fuss or seem agitated. He may screw up his face as though he's in pain, pull his knees up to his stomach or kick his legs. 

Is a wet or soiled nappy making him uncomfortable? 


Your baby may not mind having a wet or soiled nappy, but some babies really don't like it. If this is the case with your baby, he'll probably let you know by crying or being restless. He may also have more subtle ways of telling you such as becoming pale or red in the face, looking away or losing interest in playing. 

Is he too hot or too cold? 


You can check your baby's temperature by feeling the back of his neck. Look at his skin colour, too. If it's mottled with patches of red and blue, it may mean his body's trying to adjust to the right temperature. 

Your baby needs to wear enough clothes to feel warm, but not hot. Dress him in layers. If he becomes too hot you can remove a layer. If he is too cold, simply add one. 

Is he overstimulated? 


Some babies are easily overwhelmed, and can only cope with short bursts of play. Your baby may show you he's had enough stimulation by sneezing, yawning, looking pale or very red, or looking away. He may seem drowsy or start to fuss, cry, or push you away. 

While your baby was born with the ability to self-soothe, he may still find it hard to settle down when he's overwhelmed. When he was curled up in your womb (uterus), he probably found it easy to suck his hands or fingers and soothe himself to sleep. But after he's born it may not be as easy for him to reach them! 

By watching your baby's movements, you can tell if he likes to put his fist, hand or fingers near or into his mouth. You can also try holding him calmly in your arms or over your shoulder. Or put him down in a quiet place with your hand resting gently on his belly. 

You'll learn if he likes to lie in a particular way, or if it helps him to look at something. Once you know what works for him, you can help him to develop his natural self-soothing techniques.

How can I tell what sort of personality my newborn will have?

All babies have their own characteristics. You'll soon be able to tell if your baby has a personality like yours, your partner's or perhaps another relative. He may even develop a personality that's completely unique to him! 

You may find that your baby is relaxed about being handled, and copes well with change. He may manage to self-soothe, not be troubled much by wind, and seem to take things as they come. 

On the other hand, your baby may fuss and cry a lot, startle easily, and find being handled rather overwhelming. In this case, he'll benefit from a calm, gentle approach, and not too much stimulation at any one time. 

Try not to worry if you expected your baby to have a certain personality, but he seems to be the opposite. You'll soon learn to understand each other and what sort of approach he enjoys most.
My baby never seems to stop crying. What should I do?
If you find it difficult to hear your baby cry, you aren't alone. Most parents find it hard. But crying is simply your baby's main means of communicating. Responding to your baby is the best way to help him relax. 

Babies tend to cry more between the ages of three weeks and 12 weeks, usually in the late afternoon or early evening. While this is a normal, developmental phase, most parents worry about this end-of-day crying. But try to see it as a period of letting off steam. One study showed that babies who fussed a lot in the evenings usually slept better afterwards. 

You may find that a good approach is to run through the following basics just once, then pause. So, change your baby's nappy, give him a cuddle and burp him, and check that he's not hungry or in pain. Then put him down for about five minutes. You can attend to him if he's still fussing, but put him down again afterwards. Bear in mind this pattern may go on for quite a while, but some mums find it helpful to follow this routine. 

If your baby cries for more than three hours a day, three days a week for three weeks , then this may be classed as excessive crying. It's often referred to as colic and it can be stressful for you and your partner. Your baby may benefit from gentle, slow handling. And you may find he's more relaxed if you put him down with your hand on his belly, rather than holding him. Talk to your doctor or child health nurse if you feel like your baby is crying too much or if this interferes with his feeding. She may be able to rule out any other causes for the crying.

It can be hard to keep calm when your baby cries. You may find it helpful to get support from friends or family, if possible. But reminding yourself that your newborn's behaviour is normal may help you feel less anxious. Most babies cry less after about three months. 


Source: www.babycenter.com.au

Tuesday, 16 October 2018

12 Effective Tips On How To Take Care Of Baby In Winter

Why is Baby Care in Winter Essential?Problem Caused by Winter VirusesSymptoms of Winter Infections in BabiesUseful Tips for Infant Care in WinterWhat if Your Newborn Baby Falls Sick in Winter?
Once the sweaty summers are over and the moist monsoons have bid their goodbye, many welcome the winter with a happy smile on their face. The ideal picture for a new mother spending time with her kid in the winter is being snuggled in a blanket, cradling the child in one hand, a warm bowl of soup in the other, and reading a nice book to him. But this dreamy scenario can easily be shattered by the little one falling sick. Newborn baby care in winter is one of the prime responsibilities and your child requires all the help he can get to stay healthy throughout the months.

Once the sweaty summers are over and the moist monsoons have bid their goodbye, many welcome the winter with a happy smile on their face. The ideal picture for a new mother spending time with her kid in the winter is being snuggled in a blanket, cradling the child in one hand, a warm bowl of soup in the other, and reading a nice book to him. But this dreamy scenario can easily be shattered by the little one falling sick. Newborn baby care in winter is one of the prime responsibilities and your child requires all the help he can get to stay healthy throughout the months.

Why is Baby Care in Winter Essential?

Newborn babies require continued care and support until they reach a point where they can sustain themselves in a better way. But this need for care is increased when winter approaches. The reduced temperature of the atmosphere triggers various processes within the body to keep itself safe and the vital organs functioning well. Most of the energy is then used to maintain the body temperature appropriately, diverting it from other areas. This is where the immunity of the body takes a hit as well. Furthermore, winter is a gala time for different microbes and viruses to thrive and find hosts to infect. Combined with a decreased immunity, your baby becomes an easy target for diseases and increases the chances of the little one falling ill.

Problem Caused by Winter Viruses

Baby skin care in winter is just the tip of the iceberg. One of the key problems that take place in winter is the spread of various viruses that readily affect anyone in a matter of time. This gives rise to the typical winter diseases such as:


Influenza and bronchiolitis, both affecting the throat
Croup as well as rhinovirus, which can easily get quite severe if unattended
A variety of respiratory sensitive viruses, which affect the respiratory tract and can cause anything from a simple cough to severe breathing problems
Symptoms of Winter Infections in Babies
Most of the infections that occur in winter have strong symptoms, which make them easier to be spotted and action being taken right away. The major ones amongst them are:


Severe coughing that results in vomiting
Having trouble in taking breaths, causing the baby to gasp or take tiny breaths
Wheezing sounds while sleeping or even after coughing
Pain in the chest due to inflamed lungs as a result of a respiratory infection
Constantly runny nose, fever, cough, with a headache and fatigue

Useful Tips for Infant Care in Winter

To have a better understanding of how to take care of a baby’s skin in winter and ensure he stays healthy throughout the season, there are a few tips you can remember and put into action in order to keep your child safe.


1. Use a Humidifier
In certain areas, the temperature can plummet quite a bit, making it necessary to use heating systems or portable heaters next to your baby. In such a scenario, the heating apparatus could rob the room of water vapour, making the air dry as well as your child’s skin. Install a humidifier in the room as well so that the moisture levels are maintained optimally.


HUMIDIFIER

2. Use a Moisturizer
Your child’s skin is extremely sensitive and the harsh atmosphere of the winter does not treat it gently. To keep your child’s skin in the soft and lush way as it is, make use of skin creams specifically made for babies or even a nice skin lotion. Opt for those that are rich in milk cream and butter, or make use of actual milk cream as well, since it is a great natural way to maintain the glow and texture of your baby’s skin.


3. Don’t Use a Lot of Products
Tell parents to take care of their baby, and most of them will typically overdo it. Applying lotions and creams is fine. But in the attempt to keep your baby clean and safe for infection, you might give him numerous baths, which further exposes him to soaps and shampoos. These rob the little one’s skin from the existing moisture and make dry skin even worse. Water baths during winters are fine and opt for using soaps once in a week or so.


4. Massage Your Baby Well
No matter what season your baby has been born in, massaging your child is highly recommended by doctors and caretakers alike. The very act of massaging stimulates the blood flow within the body and increases the sense of well-being, which indirectly boosts the immunity within your kid as well. Maintain a warm atmosphere when massaging your baby and choose an appropriate time. Don’t hesitate to use natural oils, too.

5. Don’t Use Heavy Blankets
Laying a nice heavy blanket on your baby to keep him warm might seem the best way to comfort your child in winter. But that isn’t the safest way for your child. The inability of your child to shift the blanket and the chance of it pulling above his face could result in a sudden infant death. Use a light blanket and keep room temperature optimal.

6. Use Comfortable Clothing
Keeping your child constantly wrapped up in thick sweaters, gloves, socks and a cap could restrict him from moving easily and frankly make the entire getup quite irritating. Choose to clothe depending on the room temperature, and opt for clothes that fully cover his body but are not constricting. Gloves and socks are recommended as well since it is enough to make your child sleep peacefully.


COMFORTABLE CLOTHING
Once the sweaty summers are over and the moist monsoons have bid their goodbye, many welcome the winter with a happy smile on their face. The ideal picture for a new mother spending time with her kid in the winter is being snuggled in a blanket, cradling the child in one hand, a warm bowl of soup in the other, and reading a nice book to him. But this dreamy scenario can easily be shattered by the little one falling sick. Newborn baby care in winter is one of the prime responsibilities and your child requires all the help he can get to stay healthy throughout the months.


7. Maintain a Warm Temperature
Keeping your home and your baby’s room comfortable and warm is quite a challenge in the winters. It is best to keep the windows shut if you are in a place where cold air keeps blowing quite frequently. That being said, make sure there is a way that the air in the room stays ventilated. Use a heater, if required, so that your baby is comfortable by himself.


8. Stick to The Vaccination Schedule
Yes, winter is a time when babies tend to fall sick and their immunity levels are reduced as well. But that isn’t a reason to skip any vaccine for the fear that it might make your baby ill. On the contrary, it is highly important to give him the shot he needs at the right time, so that he doesn’t face problems ahead in life or even during the same winter, too. In case you do end up skipping it by chance, get the next date confirmed from your doctor and go for it without fail.

9. Don’t Stop Breastfeeding
Mother’s milk is known to contain a treasure trove of antibodies and nutrients that help the baby strengthen his own immunity and protect him from the usual diseases. Continuing to breastfeed during winter makes sure that this support from the mother remains undeterred. Furthermore, the warmth of your body and your milk can be quite relaxing for the child as well.


10. Maintaining Your Own Hygiene
You are going to be the first point of contact for your child. Which is why it is absolutely necessary for you to be clean and healthy as a protection for your own baby. Wash your hands and disinfect them with a sanitizer every time you attend to your child. Germs can find the smallest way of reaching your kid, so make sure you stop all paths right away. Inform any visitors or guests to do the same as well.


11. Taking Care Outdoors
Unless is absolutely freezing outdoors, it is fine to step out of the house once in a while to get some fresh air. Make sure your baby is protected from head to toe before taking him out. Any exposure of the skin to the cold wind could make him uncomfortable quickly. Make sure that your baby’s toes are a bit on the cooler side and the tummy is on the warmer side. This is the ideal sign that your baby’s body is at the right temperature.


12. Include Soup in The Diet
If your baby has reached the age where he can start going for solids, winter is a great time to introduce him to the world of soups. The cold atmosphere mixed with a warm soup can be absolutely enticing for anyone. Using chicken broths or vegetables by crushing them down to a fine puree and making soup from it, is the best option for your child. If possible, try including some garlic with the soup too, since it is known to be a natural remedy for treating winter ailments.

What if Your Newborn Baby Falls Sick in Winter?

At times, even taking the best precautions cannot help prevent an illness, and your baby will soon be at discomfort due to it. Having a newborn fall ill is quite an issue and having that in the winter is yet another challenge.

If it is the common flu or cold, use homemade saline solution or nasal drops to help relieve a blocked nose and get your baby to breathe properly. That could itself bring quite some relief.

Make sure your child stays hydrated. Keep breastfeeding him or giving him water separately. If he can drink soups or so, do alternate them appropriately to keep his taste interested and body fluids at a proper level.


Cuddling your baby lovingly and spending time with him is just as necessary along with other precautionary measures. Many times, the presence of safety and comfort can help the body combat the infection by itself. Although, if the signs and symptoms of the infection tend to start worsening, do contact your doctor right away.

Winter is a time of fun and family, but also a time that can bring forth numerous diseases. Knowing the right home remedies for baby skin care in winter along with the necessary precautions to prevent illness should be your first step in spending a safe winter. Stay in touch with your doctor to get a quick suggestion on any health issue. Maintain a proper atmosphere at home that is warm and hygienic, and your baby will enjoy his very first winter in all its glory.


Source: http://parenting.firstcry.com/

Thursday, 11 October 2018

How to Take Care of a Newborn (with Pictures)

Taking care of your new born involves care and utmost hygiene, so that your tiny tot does not fall ill.



The most exciting and memorable day of your life was the day you brought your baby home. Even before the baby arrived, you spent all your time decorating the nursery and cleaning the house. And then your cleaning duties quadrupled after the baby arrived. Since the immune systems of infants are not quite developed, they can catch infections faster. There is no alternative but to keep the house as free of germs as possible.

Check out these simple tips for new born baby care:

Wash your hands often. The monsoon season brings with it cooling breezes and a whole lot of germs. The damp atmosphere encourages fungal and bacterial growth all over the house. You might inadvertently carry flu or common cold germs to your baby, so the best thing to do is wash your hands with Dettol antibacterial soap multiple times during the day. Wash your hands before you prepare the baby’s formula, give the baby a bath, handle the sippy cup or teething ring, and even when dressing or changing the baby. Wash all of baby’s things in antibacterial soap or detergent and let them air dry before use.

Keep away if you’re unwell. It is common to catch a cold during this season, and equally easy to pass it on to your baby. It is best to keep away from your baby if you have a fever or a runny nose. If you must handle the baby (for feeding or changing), wear latex gloves and don a clean set of clothes before picking up the child.

Store baby’s diapers in a dry place. All items that are left undisturbed for some period of time will attract mould and fungal growth. These can cause skin irritation for your baby. Always buy sealable diaper packets and keep naphthalene balls or silica gel packets in the diaper drawer to absorb moisture. Keep wipes, talcum powder and a changing flannel in the same drawer, so that you can change the baby quickly.

Disinfecting the house. New born care also includes keeping the house unconditionally clean. Apart from flies and mosquitoes flying in and spreading diseases, your house might attract cockroaches, germs, fungal and bacterial infections. Spraying all plastic, metal and glass surfaces with Dettol Multi-Use Hygiene antibacterial liquid cleaners, mopping the floors with disinfectant soap and using Dettol Multi-Purpose cleaning wipes on spills will keep germs and bacterial infections at bay. Focus your energies on keeping the kitchen, bathroom and wash basin clean and free of germs. Also get your house fumigated to keep flies and other insects away.

Be careful with baby’s clothes. You wash your hands before handling the baby and put several hygiene checks in place to keep your house clean. It is prudent to exercise similar precautions with the baby’s clothes and toys as well. The baby’s clothes should not be washed with the rest of your laundry load. Wash the baby’s clothes and intimates separately with fabric softener and mild anti-bacterial detergent. Air dry all the clothes and accessories, and steam dry any metal or rubber implements or toys. Also, even if your baby wears diapers and there is minimal chance of bedwetting, do change the baby’s bedding every two days to keep germs away.

Thursday, 4 October 2018

Most Effective Newborn Baby Care Tips in First 30 Days

Parent-to-parent advice on feeding, soothing, and more during baby's first days at home.

Breastfeeding

It's been six weeks since our daughter, Clementine, was born. She's finally sleeping better and going longer between feedings. She's also becoming more alert when she's awake. My husband and I, on the other hand, feel like we've been hit by a truck. I'm amazed that we've muddled through. Here are tips from seasoned parents and baby experts to make your first month easier.

Hints for Nursing

Babies eat and eat and eat. Although nature has done a pretty good job of providing you and your baby with the right equipment, in the beginning it's almost guaranteed to be harder than you expected. From sore nipples to tough latch-ons, nursing can seem overwhelming.

1. Women who seek help have a higher success rate. "Think of ways to ensure success before you even give birth," suggests Stacey Brosnan, a lactation consultant in New York City. Talk with friends who had a good nursing experience, ask baby's pediatrician for a lactation consultant's number, or attend a La Leche League (nursing support group) meeting (see laleche.org to find one).

2. Use hospital resources. Kira Sexton, a Brooklyn, New York, mom, says, "I learned everything I could about breastfeeding before I left the hospital." Ask if there's a nursing class or a lactation consultant on staff. Push the nurse-call button each time you're ready to feed the baby, and ask a nurse to spot you and offer advice.

3. Prepare. At home, you'll want to drop everything to feed the baby the moment she cries for you. But Heather O'Donnell, a mom in New York City, suggests taking care of yourself first. "Get a glass of water and a book or magazine to read." And, because breastfeeding can take a while, she says, "pee first!"


4. Try a warm compress if your breasts are engorged or you have blocked ducts. A heating pad or a warm, wet washcloth works, but a flax pillow (often sold with natural beauty products) is even better. "Heat it in the microwave, and conform it to your breast," says Laura Kriska, a mom in Brooklyn, New York.

5. Heat helps the milk flow, but if your breasts are sore after nursing, try a cold pack. Amy Hooker, a San Diego mom, says, "A bag of frozen peas worked really well for me."

6. If you want baby to eventually take a bottle, introduce it after breastfeeding is established but before the 3-month mark. Many experts say 6 to 8 weeks is good, but "we started each of our kids on one bottle a day at 3 weeks," says Jill Sizemore, a mom in Pendleton, Indiana.

Sleeping

If your infant isn't eating, he's probably sleeping. Newborns log as many as 16 hours of sleep a day but only in short bursts. The result: You'll feel on constant alert and more exhausted than you ever thought possible. Even the best of us can come to resent the severe sleep deprivation.

7. Stop obsessing about being tired. There's only one goal right now: Care for your baby. "You're not going to get a full night's sleep, so you can either be tired and angry or just tired," says Vicki Lansky, author of Getting Your Child to Sleep...and Back to Sleep (Book Peddlers). "Just tired is easier."

8. Take shifts. One night it's Mom's turn to rock the cranky baby, the next it's Dad's turn. Amy Reichardt and her husband, Richard, parents in Denver, worked out a system for the weekends, when Richard was off from work. "I'd be up with the baby at night but got to sleep in. Richard did all the morning care, then got to nap later."

9. The old adage "Sleep when your baby sleeps" really is the best advice. "Take naps together and go to bed early," says Sarah Clark, a mom in Washington, D.C.

10. What if your infant has trouble sleeping? Do whatever it takes: Nurse or rock baby to sleep; let your newborn fall asleep on your chest or in the car seat. "Don't worry about bad habits yet. It's about survival -- yours!" says Jean Farnham, a Los Angeles mom.

Soothing

It's often hard to decipher exactly what baby wants in the first murky weeks. You'll learn, of course, by trial and error.

11. "The key to soothing fussy infants is to mimic the womb. Swaddling, shushing, and swinging, as well as allowing babies to suck and holding them on their sides, may trigger a calming reflex," says Harvey Karp, MD, creator of The Happiest Baby on the Block books, videos, and DVDs.

12. Play tunes. Forget the dubious theory that music makes a baby smarter, and concentrate on the fact that it's likely to calm him. "The Baby Einstein tapes saved us," says Kim Rich, a mom in Anchorage, Alaska.

13. Warm things up. Alexandra Komisaruk, a mom in Los Angeles, found that diaper changes triggered a meltdown. "I made warm wipes using paper towels and a pumpable thermos of warm water," she says. You can also buy an electric wipe warmer for a sensitive baby.

14. You'll need other tricks, too. "Doing deep knee bends and lunges while holding my daughter calmed her down," says Emily Earle, a mom in Brooklyn, New York. "And the upside was, I got my legs back in shape!"

15. Soak to soothe. If all else fails -- and baby's umbilical cord stub has fallen off -- try a warm bath together. "You'll relax, too, and a relaxed mommy can calm a baby," says Emily Franklin, a Boston mom.

Getting Dad Involved

Your husband, who helped you through your pregnancy, may seem at a loss now that baby's here. It's up to you, Mom, to hand the baby over and let Dad figure things out, just like you're doing.

16. Let him be. Many first-time dads hesitate to get involved for fear of doing something wrong and incurring the wrath of Mom. "Moms need to allow their husbands to make mistakes without criticizing them," says Armin Brott, author of The New Father: A Dad's Guide to the First Year (Abbeville Press).

17. Ask Dad to take time off from work -- after all the relatives leave. That's what Thad Calabrese, of Brooklyn, New York, did. "There was more for me to do, and I got some alone time with my son."

18. Divvy up duties. Mark DiStefano, a dad in Los Angeles, took over the cleaning and grocery shopping. "I also took Ben for a bit each afternoon so my wife could have a little time to herself."

19. Remember that Dad wants to do some fun stuff, too. "I used to take my shirt off and put the baby on my chest while we napped," say Bob Vonnegut, a dad in Islamorada, Florida. "I loved the rhythm of our hearts beating together."

Staying Sane

No matter how excited you are to be a mommy, the constant care an infant demands can drain you. Find ways to take care of yourself by lowering your expectations and stealing short breaks.

20. First, ignore unwanted or confusing advice. "In the end, you're the parents, so you decide what's best," says Julie Balis, a mom in Frankfort, Illinois.

21. "Forget about housework for the first couple of months," says Alison Mackonochie, author of 100 Tips for a Happy Baby (Barron's). "Concentrate on getting to know your baby. If anyone has anything to say about the dust piling up or the unwashed dishes, smile and hand them a duster or the dish detergent!"

22. Accept help from anyone who is nice -- or naive -- enough to offer. "If a neighbor wants to hold the baby while you shower, say yes!" says Jeanne Anzalone, a mom in Croton-on-Hudson, New York.

23. Got lots of people who want to help but don't know how? "Don't be afraid to tell people exactly what you need," says Abby Moskowitz, a Brooklyn mom. It's one of the few times in your life when you'll be able to order everyone around!

24. But don't give other people the small jobs. "Changing a diaper takes two minutes. You'll need others to do time-consuming work like cooking, sweeping floors, and buying diapers," says Catherine Park, a Cleveland mom.

25. Reconnect. To keep yourself from feeling detached from the world, Jacqueline Kelly, a mom in Lewisburg, Pennsylvania, suggests: "Get outside on your own, even for five minutes."

Out and About with Baby
26. Enlist backup. Make your first journey to a big, public place with a veteran mom. "Having my sister with me for support kept me from becoming flustered the first time I went shopping with my newborn," says Suzanne Zook, a mom in Denver.

27. If you're on your own, "stick to places likely to welcome a baby, such as story hour at a library or bookstore," suggests Christin Gauss, a mom in Fishers, Indiana.

28. "Keep your diaper bag packed," says Fran Bowen, a mom in Brooklyn. There's nothing worse than finally getting the baby ready, only to find that you're not.

29. Stash a spare. Holland Brown, a mom in Long Beach, California, always keeps a change of adult clothes in her diaper bag. "You don't want to get stuck walking around with an adorable baby but mustard-colored poop all over you."

30. Finally, embrace the chaos. "Keep your plans simple and be prepared to abandon them at any time," says Margi Weeks, a mom in Tarrytown, New York.

If nothing else, remember that everyone makes it through, and so will you. Soon enough you'll be rewarded with your baby's first smile, and that will help make up for all the initial craziness.

Source: https://www.parents.com/baby/care/newborn/your-newborn-30-tips-for-the-first-30-days/

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